Goodness has its own fragrance. No matter how insignificant it seems, the fragrance of a good deed will move the heart of the person who receives it. However, goodness does not come from thoughts or some kind of research. It flows from heart. Thus, to give out the fragrance of goodness, you should cultivate goodness in your heart. It seems to be a nice try for you to give gifts to the one who you feel uncomfortable about, but it is more important for you to cultivate love and a serving heart towards that person. The more goodness you cultivate in your heart, the deeper fragrance it will give out.