As we grow up and become a mature adult we need proper experience and training. If a person grows up in an overprotective environment and lacks experience it may result in becoming overly dependent. If a person has not experienced being protected and loved, they may be emotionally unstable. However, we can even change the aspects of our personalities and fulfill the attributes that we are deficient in. This is because nothing is impossible when we receive God's grace, strength, and the help of the Holy Spirit by believing in Jesus Christ (Mark 10:27).