There are some people who seek others' benefits and yield to others because the Word of God tells us to seek others' benefits. But, at the same time they may think, 'I always yield' and feel uncomfortable about it. But they still think they are of goodness because they bear with their losses. Such people have to realize that they have uncomfortable feelings. God looks at our inner hearts, so when we cultivate service in our hearts, not just pretending to do so, we can resemble God.