Some people seek their own benefits without doing any good or any work for others. Of course, they may seem to be comfortable and well off, but they can't be truly happy since they have problems dealing with people. Thus, God advises us to visit orphans and widows in distress (James 1:27), to practice hospitality (Romans 12:13), and to pursue peace in everything (Hebrews 12:14). If we stop being lazy as God's Word says and seek others' benefits in everything, we can win over their hearts and lead a blessed and happy life.